Note: The power outages this week reminded me of a story from long ago. I wish I had shared it sooner….like during the mid-term elections when I heard people talk about having no power because of a person or situation that had taken it away.
It’s a reminder that we still have power even when some of it gets taken away. It may not be obvious.
We may have to hunt around. And it might not be exactly what we had in mind. But it’s there somewhere.
Read this. Share it with others on your team Finding and feeling one’s power is a must for morale & productivity – yours and theirs.
Here it is.
we have no power
The house was colder than normal on this December morning. The clocks were dead. Through the window, we saw trees sagging under a beautiful crystal-like layer of ice; power lines across the road plus branches, limbs – even whole trees.
From our battery powered radio, we learned that 90% of the homes in our town were without power. it would take eight days to restore.
We went in search of breakfast and found only one restaurant open. It seemed the entire town was there – hungry and powerless.
Powerless. Webster phrased it well. We had lost “possession of control”. We had no “ability to act or produce an effect.”
It’s funny the habits we found hard to break. Passing the neighborhood video store on the way home from breakfast, my son, Ryan said excitedly, “No school today! Let’s get a video!”
“Oh – I forgot”, he said. “We don’t have power.”
For two days – I flipped the light switch every time I entered a room. “Oh – I forgot. No power.”
No lights. No video. No hot water.
No stove. Or refrigerator. Or washer. Or dryer.
No television. Or video games.
No computer. Or e-mail. Or phone. Or fax. Or answering machine.
No traffic lights. Or streetlights.
Never mind that our ancestors didn’t have these things. Never mind that many people of the world are without these things every day.
WE HAD NO POWER!
We are spoiled by power. Feel entitled to it.
Yet – might it be true that by losing it, we uncover forgotten power? Hidden power? Maybe even become more powerful?
We remembered some forgotten power fairly easily. Like the gas hot water heater. And the gas logs. Then we remembered the “old-timey” telephone in the attic. You know – one of those that doesn’t need electricity?
And what about the gas grill? It became a great and fun place to heat water for hot chocolate, cook eggs and a “mean” tasting grilled cheese sandwich.
Our power was revealed in other ways as well. Gerry and his friend went out with their chain saws on that first day. Clearing streets and driveways all over town. No one asked them to do it. They asked no one for permission to do it. They did it because they had the equipment and the know-how. Not for rewards or payment.
They told us about a woman who gave them a $50 bill to thank them for their help. They refused. She insisted. They took the money and gave it to charity. They used their power to help others and to pay it forward.
Other friends and neighbors who did have electricity called their friends and neighbors to check in and offer assistance. Once we located our old timey telephone, we were lucky enough to receive one of those calls from Lou and Tracey. They invited us over for showers and dinner and to spend the night. We gladly accepted!
The first night, we helped cook dinner for ten others who had been invited for a warm-up dinner. It quickly became dinner for 35 and a night full of fun and laughter. We all forgot about our own cold, dark households – for three nights in a row. Meanwhile – their showers had revolving doors. The washer and dryer worked non-stop. And the counter tops were constantly lined with charging cell phones and laptops.
Lou and Tracey had power and they shared it. In the process, they reminded the rest of us about the power of friendship and generosity.
Our neighbor, Beth, also had power. Looking for those without, she knocked on doors and called on the telephone, repeating what became a famous refrain “Come on over and BYOT!” (Bring your own towel).
WCHL, our community radio station had lost power, but the engineers and generators kept the sound waves going 24/7. And somehow the sleep-deprived announcers kept providing information and entertainment, both vital during this emergency situation.
One announcement was about Weaver Street Market. They had lost power and their food was spoiling. In an effort to turn their misfortune into good fortune for others, they asked the radio station to announce “Come take our food. It’s FREE.”
Sally was powerless to make progress on any of her client deadlines but heard the announcement and knew of a family of eight whose home had burned to the ground the week before. They were starting over in a rental home near Sally and they had power, an empty refrigerator and an empty freezer. So Sally drove to Weaver Street and let the manager know the situation. He loaded her station wagon with pizza, vegetables, fruit, bread, pasta and other foods which Sally delivered – filling her new neighbor’s freezer to the brim.
Sally had lost the power to do her usual job. Weaver Street had lost their power to provide fresh food. WCHL had lost their usual source of power as well. Even so, this threesome had a powerful impact on a family that had suffered a tragedy few of us can even imagine.
Dave also heard an announcement on WCHL about someone giving free wood to those in need. Dave had no use for wood, but he knew of an older couple nearby who had run out, so he filled his trunk with wood and delivered it to the couple.
Dave had lost power to do his usual job, but he found hidden power to help another couple in need.
The power lines had been completely ripped away from our house. We had gotten conflicting information about whether to wait for the power company or call an electrician. On the fifth dark day, we decided to call an electrician. As you might imagine, it was hard to locate one at this time.
We finally reached Sam on Sunday morning at 7:00 am. He drove 40 miles to come over and repair the damage. When we asked what we owed, he quoted his normal weekday, non-emergency hourly rate.
He had the power to repair the damage done by the storm. He did it. He had the power to charge far more than his normal rate. He didn’t.
Shortly before the storm, Shelly Heath, a teacher at McDougle Middle School, had introduced “kindness” as part of a values curriculum. Our town’s loss of power added power to this values lesson, as kids came to school after the storm, reporting their many powerful exposures to kindness.
People often talk about things they wish they could have – things they wish were different – followed by reasons these wishes won’t or can’t come true. Spouses, kids, bosses, mergers, layoffs, the economy, war.
These obstacles seem to zap our power like the ice did. Yet if we truly want the things described in our wishful statements – don’t we have the power somewhere? Forgotten power? Hidden power? Perhaps undiscovered power?
We certainly found a lot of it back in December.
original copyright 2003 – Jan Bolick; revised ©2010 and 2018 – Jan Bolick, Business Class Inc
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